Papa-Paparazi

We went to the aquarium today, as 7 year old JP is a budding oceanographer, but I think we were a more popular attraction than the fish. We happen to be extraordinary to the Chinese on so many levels. First of all we are a family of 3 which is like an unimaginable indulgence. Second, 2 out of my three kids are fair haired. This is unbelievably popular, especially Miss E. At first Mr J. thought it was fun, but it got old pretty quick. Luckily he had a hood, to cover his golden tresses and his big blue eyes, which he used to go incognito. As we were enjoying the shark exhibit, and Mr. J was gently touching the fish, I personally witnessed patrons taking pictures of my kids rather than taking pictures of the sea creatures. On several occasions, Steve or I would get big thumbs up for our amazing production of two boys then a girl.

I have to admit, at least in Shanghai, I haven't witnessed any gender predilection. There seems to be just as many little girls as little boys clinging to their mums; all well dressed, but not necessarily well behaved. Kids in China are so cherished, that they get to rule the roost. It will be interesting, as the socioeconomics continue to grow a wealthier class in China, with all these privileged only children and more western influences if they will see a slow down in their production of an educated/motivated work force.

The warmth expressed by the Chinese toward children is genuine. Even though they were exuberantly and blatantly taking photos of my children, they were respectful, and I did not feel that they were in danger. Now, if I see one of their faces on a billboard in the future it will be a different story. Truthfully, they love kids and are only likely to be blessed with one child per family, so they appreciate the little ones more. I was a little crestfallen, when I was waiting for the boys outside a bathroom and a woman with her son the same age as Miss E. struck up a conversation. He was bigger than Emmy, cute with his little buns hanging out of his split bottom pants. She was amazed to hear I had 3 children and she said "we are only allowed to have one in China, it makes it pretty lonely." That is when you realize the true meaning of freedom, and why we work so hard to protect it. Which is another reason why I am not offended by all of the attention. They truly are a humble society to see the other side of the coin and not rebel or carry animosity... Or is is just learned helplessness.

For now, I will take my rock star family into the last week until school starts. We seem to be generally adjusting well. The boys have issues from time to time, which is to be expected. I haven't had time to miss work quite yet. Thanks for all of your posts and suggestions. I will keep blogging...